You're right and I removed it. Did he leave that out? There are many reasons for this disorders both biological and psycological but this problem is causing lack of confidence to our husbands and makes them afraid not being able to perform well and therefore prefers to avoid sex to not have the feeling of not being a man. I know that, Aisha may Allah be pleased with her has said a lot about her sexual relations with the prophet. However, I am not going to find relief by doing muscle exercises. What are the benefits of consummation on the first night of marriage? Reply. It was because of a generally vulgar tone in the comments. 6 ways to talk to your partner if you're not satisfied with your sex life. the prophet[saww] used to sleep with all his nine wives within same night. But I think, we know at the same time that the prophet always made ghusul before he went to pray and he would, have never had intercourse and then perfom namaz without wudhu. About how I returned my husband, we got married for over 9 years and got two kids. Hence the narration in Bukhari where the Sahaba claim he had strength of "thirty men." We know that the Rasool SAW was the best to his wives and he was fair and loving. "Ask for directions. It's easy to sit back and complain and criticize when you don't have all the information. So there isn’t much to be awkward or embarrassed about when it comes to our sex life. My husband wants to have sex almost every night, but I feel really tired and I don't want to. I’d highly appreciate it. Your remark about how the editors "claim to be Muslim" is very insulting and inappropriate. It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The signs of the hypocrite are three: when he speaks, he lies; when he makes a promise, he breaks it; and when he is entrusted with something, he betrays that trust.” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 33; Muslim, 59). you shouldnt think of anything wrong with this as they were halaal for him. So you ask him what he wants and then divorce or stay with him accordingly, I think he will find peace and enjoy intimacy if he remarries to a loyal and caring wife who can concentrate 100% on him. He always asks me if I have also reached satisfaction and if I say no he gets very angry, and then tells me to wait an hour or more for him to feel erect again. Sheila Gregoire is the writer of “ 10 Ways to Satisfy Your Husband in Bed ” that appears on her website tolovehonorandvacuum.com Sheila states that as long as these sex styles do not … Talk to teach other and learn what feels good, and what doesn’t. Although these people appear to be Muslim, their nifaq is so apparent that even a baby can understand that they are clear HYPOCRITES. Arguing over such things is counterproductive, and only creates divisions and earns us sins if we are disrespectful. Speaking of lies, among the hadiths narrated by Abu Hurayrah (ra) are the following: 1. He’s kind, hilarious, and financially stable, but selfish in bed. This munafiq does not even say PBUH after taking the name of the Messenger of Allah. I know how the Shiah think about Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her); are you implying that she was a liar? Are you now tying your boat to his? It is a practical religion where one may fulfil his/her needs in a permissible way. by, Abu Hurairah are fabricated, and many hadiths in Bukhari are not 100%tly reliable and somehow, a contradiction to history. So here we are another year later and I’m still not being satisfied sexually by my husband. he would finish the whole qur'aan in two rak'ahs, and pray istikhaarah before placing every single one of those ahadeeth in his mustakhar. "Sexlessness can occur when couples stop trying to attract and arouse each other and the intimate side of their lives become stagnant and boring. Let him know how your feeling without being accusing. The holy prophet was not the "Sex god" astaghfirullah that people have, made of him, even Muslims. 1st of all, they have no srtong chain of narration, they are in books like al-waaqidi, majmuu'-as-sagheer etc. What about foreplay? Our Deen is a complete way of life and it wouldn't have been had it not been clear about sexual issues too. Remind him that the point of the conversation is to be honest (even if that honesty hurts) and ask him to share with you honestly, without regard for how you might react, at what the problem is. I like you Sister Jannah, I think that your comments generally show an intelligent, common-sense approach; so please be careful with these other matters. If this is the case, then complimenting him and reminding him that you love him, and find him attractive should encourage him to try again. We wish not from you reward or gratitude. Sister Sara is right in her comment above, we all got a little off track from the original post, and all this argumentation is not productive. When did he pray his night prayer?????????????????????????? And their heinous plot will be half realized if they can make people believe that Abu Huraira's narrations are fabricated, because Abu Huraira narrated more than 5000 hadiths of the Messenger of Allah. That is why he's not intimate with you in my opinion. My local community suspect there is something wrong because we have been married 3 years and have no children. I think this question is not real / maybe an act of trolling . You should be ethical and be using that kind of vulgar words is forbidden in Islam. And concerning Zeynab bint Jahash, that's Bukhari too. You sound like a buddy of mine right now. Can I worship the Hindu god after I accept Islam? God forgave me but I couldn’t forgive myself. I am so speechless, that even if the prophet enjoyed sex, you allow yourself to claim that he slept with 11. wives in the same night. It sounds like your husband is ashamed or embarrassed by sexual contact. the prophet[saww] passed all his youth-hood with an old woman [ra], he [saww] lived with her for over 25 years, and he was fully satisfied with her[ra], he did not marry anyone else, nor did he buy any slaves, so the prophet[saww] was not overcome by his desire in anyway whatssoever. Muslim culture teaches a very toxic understanding of male/female relations where sex is not about intimacy but about putting the woman in a one-down position. There is nothing dirty about a man being with his wife. I've been watching this coming down the pipe for the last year as he's slowly been avoiding his wife & family more and more. But looking after a woman doesn't simply, mean screwing her, it means asking about her needs, her health, her wishes, her concerns. These sort of ridiculing comments are unacceptable . You sound like a buddy of mine right now. The nature of the topic/questions posted by this user are such that you get the idea not only is her husband hurt, she's actually for along period of time been emotionally incapable of loving him. character and the reduction of Rassul Allah to his mere sexuality. I've been watching this coming down the pipe for the last year as he's slowly been avoiding his wife & family more and more. When I was pregnant we couldn't do anything because of pregnancy complications so of course he turned to porn. Yes, I do not prefer it as most women do not (because it would be extremely difficult for me to accept my husband having any sort of relations with another woman) but that does not mean that I do not accept Allah swt's command. Ok, in Islam, women have sexual rights, to look after them, to satisfy their needs. The false allegation made against the Prophet (pbuh) that he married Zaynab bint Jahsh after seeing her and developing an attraction to her, is false. The reason they were delayed, then published after being edited, is not because they corrected an editor. If we only knew and followed them, we wouldn't have this site which is doing such a wonderful. so after a loooooong, tiring, thursty, dusty, sweaty journey, after 3 months, he reached for his destination, and asked for the man who was carrying the ahadeeth, so he slept in his house and was warmly welcomed. is it allow wife to swallow her husbands semen and husband to kiss her wifes genital part ? Why are we further engaging in a debate about this issue on the sisters post. Jalabie. I sincerely apologize for asking this question. My husband has been very good to me, but for some reason there’s nothing I can do to get in the mood anymore. I also would love Allah to bless us with children and I pray very hard. My doctor suggested that I masturbate but it is a sin. I am not satisfied with my husband sexually , after sex i am not discharge and he is already finished, tell me how can i discharge my self all alone ... and you dont, my wife is tired of me, she say I fuck for hours and she get tired, so try me, you will be 100 percent satisfied, i dont joke, I … Both are true and do not contradict each other, he honoured his wives and he slept with them. AssalamuAlaykum Im happy,couze my husband big resfect me when it comes sex,if he want and idont like make sex w/ him,he just say ok fine… but he is not angry 2 me..thans 4 … There are many new questions to be answered so for now please check those. Some individuals regard practices related to foreplay to be “inappropriate” and consider abstinence from such activities to be from piety (taqwa). Our holy Nabi lowered his gaze all the time and would have never met Zaynab bint, Jahash in a nightgown, let alone staring at her. This is not the way for one Muslim to speak to another. However from day one he has never been so interested in sexual intimacy. And he made monogamy a general rule and polygamy an exception. I talked generally and if you have taken offense, I apologize. I don't think the woman is a troll, but there is clearly more going on than what was mentioned in this post. **end of fatwa response 12 ways on how to attract husband sexually in Islam that a wife must know. Sawda gave her night to Aisha- you haven't commented anything on that. More and more women are coming forward about their desires so scholars are confused because the muslim ummah thinks only … rights, and that honours him, but even mentioning sexual details about his private life is somehow..... distasteful. I don’t mean to divert from the initial question posted, but after reading these replies with evidence given from hadiths of our prophet sleeping with all 9 wives in one night, I just don’t know how to interpret this. Follow. There may be something in your relationship that he can't speak to you about or he may have a problem in his life that is worrying him. All I will say is 1) yes follow your own advice inshallah and definitely try to increase your knowledge on the science of Hadith and 2) I am a sister. Also, have no idea about his past loves but just to think of it, I'm feeling hurt and jealous. because i know as per as quran , its mentioned that anal sex and,sex during menstural is haram. It's another when you just aren't satisfied, ... male husband and I have this same problem. In general you should give your brothers and sisters the benefit of the doubt. Not Sexually Satisfied [new] I (F22) and my partner (M21) were bestfriends for 2-3 years prior to us dating. I don't deny that Allah, Ta'alah gave the holy Prophet a great sexual strength compared to normal men. So it is important for the editors too to have the humility and accept their faults that they have publically expressed relating to the Deen. every night, why did Sawda give her night to Aisha?? If you can create a safe environment in which he is able to be honest with you , you can (by keeping your cool and understanding that this is a problem that you can only solve by knowing what it is) mend the problem. But the biggest things i hope you didn't lose your faith in islam.to be a moslem not under pressure. 2nd of all, the prophet[saww] gave mother zayban to sayyidnaa zayd in marraige himself, he was her wali, so if the prophet[saww] liked her, what was stopping him from marrying, why would he give her to his freed-slave if his heart was stained with her love. The Messenger of Allah (May Allah's Peace be Upon Him) was given the strength of 40 men. So if the Prophet went to his wives. There are supports in Singapore for sexually dysfunction (sexual problems relating to interest, arousal, orgasm, pain or fear/anxiety) and can go for treatment. Disclaimer: my husband is not obese or lazy, just has the ~30 extra pounds we all fight seasonally. When it comes to me and my husband that's not going to solve anything. These some of the most famous hadith about lying; and they were transmitted by Abu Hurayrah. ofcourse, with hormone release in a man, always comes along with it the extreme desire to have sexual contact.inshaallaah you will see a completely different man, physiologically and sexually. Salaam brothers and sisters, and eid mubarak to you all. If I am not satisfied with him sexually, I will go straight to him and tell him the areas that I want him to improve on or how to do better. Thus, it is not a sign of piety to abstain from such activities, for there is no place for monasticism (rahbaniyya) in Islam. No. http://www.central-mosque.com/fiqh/kissf.htm. Lets not turn this post into something with many comments, with only a few related to the original post. alhamdulillaah your problem was solved and may you have many good/strong children. Yet he does agree that sexual intercourse is a wife's right in islam. She said that although Islam gave her the option of ending her marriage, she feared that might only make her life worse. Another hadith equates sex without foreplay to animal behavior: “When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.” 3. Whereas when an editor says it, it stays there and not only that, it is more influential coming from them. To make your husband happy sexually, be open to his suggestions of style, positioning, movement, and rhythm. Is that logical?? Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I love my husband dearly but he does not satisfy me sexually. However from day one he has never been so interested in sexual intimacy. Abu Az-Zubayr is on permanently moderated status because some of his comments are thoughtful and helpful, while others are not. i understand and agree with all that you say. It doesn't make sense. My husband and I have problems with sexual intimacy since day one. An envelope. Many hadiths narrated e.g. I would suggest that this be made into a separate post where it can be addressed properly. I truly love him, and I … On that a (i.e. I met a beautiful girl while already engaged, so I prayed Istikhara. he was the most controlled, discipled human Allaah has placed on this earth along with other messengers. it caused alot of controversy and people saying dangerous things about the prophets [as]. Women generally do not climax from intercourse, and certainly not from brief intercourse with no foreplay. by. I did not. Imaam Bukhari personally spoke about the unreliability of some narrators of this so called hadith. And there is still no sign of that from SisterZ. Facebook. Be careful about what you say - "Its sounds like nothing but a male chauvenistic fantasy" ... Dont reject something if you haven't got knowledge of it and it sounds wrong to your logic. Plus, if certain certains of his private life were not narrated, what else would have brought you to the conclusion of how he 'honoured women with their bodies"?? Likewise, if he acts upon it lawfully he will be rewarded.” [Muslim]. History. Sister Jannah, you are mixing in some intelligent comments with errors. ", Sahih Bukhari Volume 4, Book 52, Number 74, Book of Jihad. the authentic/strong ahadeeth/stories are as crystal clear from the weak ones just as the sun is crealer than other stars. A stylized bird with an open mouth, tweeting. However, his sex drive is much lower than mine. Also have you tried dressing up for him etc? I am human, therefore do not know Allah swt's rationale as to why He ordained this world to function in a certain way, but people who have more Islamic knowledge than me are supposed to help us less informed people. I have a lovely wonderful and loving muslim man but he didn't make love to me unless I obliged him to by "acting as a man in bed" unfortunately since I hated to do it. I think that’s something you think about, also. Zinaa is absolutely not an option. Lastly, the major issue is using different tools for intimacy. He never really refused me but I didn't feel feminine when doing it so and just did it when I couldn't control myself any longer. After 3 years, I finally I convinced my husband to go the doctor and we started to resolve the problem . In addition to making dua and performing The Prayer of Need, please explore different wholesome options with your husband to help you reach sexual satisfaction. Where is your evidence that Rasul(sws) would sleep with all nine wives in one night? Attraction is a mental as well as physical thing and there are plenty of ways to solve any relationship problem that is affecting you in the bedroom. If he feels safe in the conversation and believes that you will not begin to scream and cry, then he may have the courage to tell you what it is. I've been very busy with work and I am very stressed when I come home. There could be work stress, or bad health or a lack of intimacy or bond that draws couples together. A brief answer though, when speaking of lust, remember that these were his wives. I would never have guessed exactly what the reasons are so, there is our lesson and I hope Wael and the other moderators pay notice to it, we always need to listen to two sides of the story, ALWAYS, because there is often a tinted and biased view after readin one person's side of the story. "What I mean by this is to not criticize them but to explain how you feel because of the sex life or situation." Allhamdudliah that he clearly adores you and is very attracted to you! As 99% of the posters will agree, no fit, sane or healthy man would ever refuse intimacy, it's partt of our inate nature, hence it's been made halaal. I'm a man, and I'm not sexually attracted to my wife. is, a historical distortion and reduces this great personality to his multiple marriages. You mention all that to me about hadith, bukhari , Aisha and her narrations etc..and then you say - " there is a subject called science of hadith- which can be studied". Converted to Islam from Hinduism, but girlfriend’s parents don’t accept me. Please dont undermine hadith or its scholars by comparing accepted sahih hadiths that the likes of Imam Bukhaari spent all their life searching to filter from the false ones. did you not know that sayyidnaa sulaymaan slept with 100 of his women in one night? The thing to remember is that even men get frustrated and emotional and whilst they are not the crying types, their stress and hidden feelings will manifest in different ways. My wife and I have hardly had sex in 20 years. I don’t know if i am just insecure or if this is the truth but my husband doesn’t seem very interested all the time. It's very important to distinguish between authenticated (saheeh) hadith and weak or fabricated hadith. our sexual passion and sexual life has ruined the day when my wife said its not allowed in islam. As a result, intercourse is painful for me. Neither the word clitoris nor female organ was mentioned in that hadith. My husband has moved to UK for 16 months for work and I am staying alone in India. Abu Az-Zubayr, please be respectful when speaking of the Prophets. It increases your knowledge and the whispers that shaitaan tries to instil within us get cleared also. ... "If she's having sex solo more often than usual, it's a sign that you're not taking care of all her sexual needs," says Eaker Weil. He looked after his wives'. It's a lot of work and we do our best. But she can answer for herself when she returns. but when he married alot of other women in his old age, Allaah gave him the extra strenght to fullfill his desire and his responsibility as a husband. This does not in any way go against the prophets 'affectionate' nature dear sister. I often tell him that it is prohibited in our religion but he does not … Bukhari (60:311) -. 2019-04-11T13:44:05Z The letter F. A ghost. I'll definitely take the advice into account and work toward being more open to sex, initiating more. However brother I think you have missed the point I was trying to make. Dear Wael, I didn't mean to insult Lady Aisha I rather think that many hadiths referring to Aisha were. This will take practice, but persist and inshaAllah you will both enjoy marital intimacy. My wife is 54 and started menopause at 46. In fact, a new academic group has emerged who says Abu Huraira's chain of narrations are false and fabricated. Anas replied, 'We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty men.' Your husband is denying you basic rights to intimacy and fulfilment of desire in marriage. Our deen is an ocean of knowledge and everyday is a learning experience for us, so just because you haven't come across something, dont reject it and label it a "fantasy. a good example would be that the prophet[saww] used to practice a type of fasting called wisaal, meaning he would not break his fast for days and would never drink or eat for days. I can only hope you have not chosen to 'ignore' this post intentionally instead of coming up front and taking back your words publically the way you uttered them? Once the intimate side of a relationship becomes stagnant and predictable, couples lose interest in each other, so if this is the case with you then you could try seducing your husband, making yourself look nice, offering massage, setting a nice scene and reigniting the romance between you. In the case of the Prophets, it is often the case that Allah strengthened them and made them able to do things that others cannot. Come on sisters, wake up. It went well with us and we are always happy. Many hadiths narrated e.g. My ex-husband is my ex-husband now because he also had an obsession for women with large breasts. "but even mentioning sexual details about his private life is somehow..... distasteful. I have been married for 3 years to my husband, he is my second cousin. He is very sweet and kind but I'm feeling so bored in our relationship. "Since my husband's third marriage, he has not had sex with me even once," Syed Bibi said. It is important that your husband is not regularly let down. 10 Signs She's Not Satisfied. In conclusion, it is important that your husband fulfils your right of foreplay and kissing. 2. (al-Insan 76:9-10) Secondly: With regard to what you mention of your husband’s falling short in regularly offering the prayers on time, this is his sin and not yours; it is his disobedience and not yours. This excellent article is a wonderful resource: Turning On Your Crockpot. It allowed me to begin the journey to forgive myself and recognize that my husband loves me for who I am today, not … Sister, may God help you. Something incorrect was said about the deen - had it been the normal posters doing that, atleast you have the power to delete it. I pray this finds you well. So as for the issue of reliability of these various hadiths regarding this issue , not just one, they have been authenticated and accepted by classical and contemporary scholars alike. He plays video games but It’s a healthy hobby for him (an hour or two a few times a week). also the sahaabah[ra] who most of them had four wives, and other female sexual partners used to engage in sexual activity alot of times. He should know that sex is just a lust that should be satisfied through legal means, and not an urgent need such as eating and drinking as the wanton West think. It was found that he had forgotten not a single word. We’ve been through a lot together, and we know each other like the backs of our hands. talk about the way you are feeling and be very clear about your needs. He would gaze at endowed women on the street or anywhere one was found, obsess to the point where when I was sick, he would tell me to bring him two very large breasted women to my … job in providing people with information. Suddenly, RIGHT after we got married, I am no longer able to “get in the mood” and we have not yet had intercourse. your husband needs to manup, and increase his stamina, lift heavy wieghts, go fitness, eat healthy. I'm suffering exactly the same problem as you. 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